#EndFGMmyths: is FGM linked to religion?
One of the most common misconceptions is that FGM is linked to religion. It is often raised in defence of FGM and many people think that certain religions force the practice. The EndFGM European Network, of which GAMS Belgium is a founding member, tackles one different misconception every month in its 2020 #EndFGMMyths campaign.
“I was five when I underwent Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). I was told that a lady I didn’t know was going to take my sister and I on a special trip. We went on an airplane without my parents.
The morning after I arrived, I was laid down on a cold table. I had no idea what was going to happen.
They took off my panties and lifted my dress. I felt exposed and bare. I began to fight and cry. Someone held me down and covered my mouth and eyes with their hands. Then I felt the cold metal and the first cut. The pain in that moment was unbearable, no other pain in my life has ever compared.
Gradually I got better and we were sent home. Our mom had made a cake, which was odd because she never normally made cakes. We were told we were celebrating our obedience to God. We were told it was something we could never talk about.
I remember my sister and I weeping in each other’s arms, knowing we had this terrible secret to keep.
When I was growing up I thought it happened to all girls. It was only when I studied human anatomy in college that I realized I wasn’t like everyone else.
FGM has had a terrible impact on my body. Up until I had a hysterectomy, my periods were excruciating. Sex was always, always painful.
It is important for people to understand just because so few Americans have spoken up, it does not mean it is not happening here. There is such a silence that surrounds this practice. Until we are talking about it more, we are never going to know how many girls in the US have been affected. We have to remove the shame, make it a subject safe to talk about.
This is not a race, culture, religious, region or anything else issue. It is a human issue, period.”
Keep on debunking myths
- Read Jenny’s story and more in EndFGM’s Global Report “FGM/C: A Call for a Global Response”
- Read GAMS Belgium and EndFGM’s guide: “Genital Mutilation: Addressing Common Myths and Misconceptions”